Will You Be Able to Enjoy the Summer with Your Kids?

For most kids, another school year has ended. No more studying, no more getting up early to catch the school bus and no more homework! It's the best time of the year for most kids. They are FREE to be a kid and enjoy all that summer has to offer! Time for swimming, camping, having friends over, or maybe just enjoying having nothing to do all day. But are your kids able to enjoy their time off school or are they going to spend it at a babysitters, or G-Ma's house, or maybe they stay home alone while you are at work. If they are teenagers, I wonder what they really spend their day doing when you aren't there to monitor their activity.
Having my own home business does allow me to watch my children grow and being able to spend time with them. But most importantly my children, I feel, are able to open up to me more because I am with them on a daily basis to realize when things are bothering them. I am in constant interaction with them. I am not a weekend Mom, but a Mom that can spend time with them instead of rushing off to work every day or coming home from work at night and having a million household chores to do, that I don't have time to make for my children.
There is only so many hours in the day to get so many things done. We are all given the same amount of hours and the same amount of days in the week. For most people with a full time job, this means that any time spent with their children or spouse is done on the weekends. This is just 2 full days. And the few hours left in the day after they get home from work. This isn't much quality time with the people that you love so much!
What if you could change that. If you could paint a picture of what your life would be like being home all day with your loved ones, what would you be doing with them? Would you finally get to know more about your kids? Would your marriage be better if you could finally have quality time with the one you love? What does your picture look like?
I can probably guess that your picture does not include a boss, a job sight, day care, or a paycheck that does not cover enough at the end of the week!
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God's Little Plan

Through out my life I have met alot of interesting people. I have had the pleasure in meeting some great people who I feel I have learned true lessons from. The greatest lesson I believe I have learned however, came from myself. So here is my story.
Around 13 yrs ago I met a woman who I couldn't quite understand why she had came into my life. At first I thought it was to make my life miserable. I felt that she somehow would be a constant reminder of what I had let go of in my life. I thought for some reason or another she was out to get me! Even though I didn't know this young woman, I truly felt she was going to make my life a living hell.
After about a year of meeting this woman, ironically I felt the need to get to know her better. Even though I didn't want to admit to it, I felt some sort of connection with her. It was almost as if God was trying to tell me......Get to know her Jeanine, she's not bad nor out to get you.
So that's what I did. I tried my best to find out who she "really" was. What kind of person she was and see if she was somehow brought into my life for "good" reasons. Then, on a sad note, my daughter was in Children's Hospital for a week, and this lady was kind enough to take a week off work to stay with me. For 5 days we were together. I got to know her and she got to know me. I finally realized that this lady was kind, caring, and even funny. And even though my daughter was terribly sick, I felt it was God's way of bringing us closer together. After that, we would call each other on the phone. Sometimes we would meet for lunch or go shopping together. The more I got to know her, the more I liked her!
As time passed we always didn't see eye to eye. Sometimes we would really not see eye to eye and not talk for a while. Oddly enough, we would patch things up and forgive one another.
I was really starting to understand what God was trying to tell me. The picture seemed to get clearer and clearer as the years would pass.
I was creating a friendship with this woman and couldn't even "see" it happening. We were doing more together and I started to confide in her on my deepest darkest secrets. My dreams and goals were shared with her. We were more than just friends by this point, she truly had become my best friend!!
I can honestly say that she is one of the most amazing women I will ever meet! Her friendship is sincere, she has a heart of Gold, she would give you her last buck to you, she's compassionate, and so very honest!
This young woman has become a big part of my life. She is the first one I will call on the phone crying my eyes out about something "wrong" in my life. She's also the first one I'll call when I have something exciting to share!
She's the only "true" friend that knows EVERYTHING about me and has never ever judged me. She loves me for who I am and in return I love her for who she truly is!
You see, this woman isn't just my very dear friend, she is also my daughter's Step Mom!
I can honestly, truly say that God was telling me to forgive my daughter's dad for all the hurt and pain I went through with him in order to receive something more sacred, something more valuable, something I would cherish all the day's of my life!
And that is exactly what I have. My daughter has grown up with both parents and step parents loving her and she has never had to grow up with all the dysfunctional crap that goes on in most split families.
I forgave so that I could receive! What a beautiful, beautiful thing God had planned!
I Love You Tina!

"J"

Saddling up for Success!

Are you saddling up for success or are you watching from the side lines wishing you could ride?

Here's a little story that will help you answer that question, if you are wanting to ride, but not sure how to get there!

My daughter who will turn 10 in July has had a passion for riding horses at a very young age. Her room was full of horse pics, magazines, jewelry, etc. About 2 years ago, she finally decided she wanted to learn how to ride. Even though she had always rode with me or her dad, she wanted to learn how to ride by herself. This was a huge step for her. And this is where the passion meets the success!

First thing was first, she had to find a horse! One that she resonated with, one that would fit to her expectations! After the horse was bought, she would now have to get a saddle, bridle, lead rope, saddle pad, boots, and all the other fixings in order to ride properly. Now, that she was ready to dress the horse, and herself, she was ready to ride...............Not quite!

There was a lot to be learned before she could saddle up and ride. At first, she had to get to know her horse, saddle her properly, learn how to mount & dismount, learn how to put the bridle on properly, learn how to lunge her, and the list goes on! This all took time. Something that does not happen over night. Every day she would be more anxious to get on and ride. And when she listened, and got it right over and over again, she was finally ready to saddle up and ride.

Getting on her horse came easy, the riding was another lesson that needed to be taught! She needed to learn how to "drive" her horse. She had to be taught how to hold her reins, how to back her, how to sit in the saddle correctly, how to switch transitions, how to turn her left or right, and so on and so on! As my daughter was learning, she also would get discouraged at times. Sometimes not getting it right the first time, she felt she had failed, let us down, or worse, let herself down. As she would get frustrated and upset, her horse would automatically go into stubborn mode and would not do anything Brooke wanted her to do. Brooke soon found out that along with learning how to ride, she had to have the right mind set! This mind set thing may have been the biggest challenge yet for Brooke! As she worked on learning how to ride, she also learned the power of what potential she had with in her mind alone!
Every day Brooke was growing, learning, building more confidence and most importantly, she was having the time of her life. She was truly doing what she had set her mind to do........
Brooke could have easily gave up every time she fell off that saddle. She could of said it wasn't worth it. She could of said it was to much to learn. Brooke didn't give up, every day she kept pushing forward, learning more today than she did yesterday. See, Brooke didn't see her glass half empty. Only looking at what she didn't know, or what she hadn't yet become. She saw her glass as half full......She took her passion, envisioned what she wanted to become, and kept filling her glass up every day!
When Brooke wanted to learn to ride, she saddled up for success! She didn't do things half way, she went full throttle and didn't let anything get in her way!

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The Price We Pay for Negative Thinking

Negative thinking is a curse we put on ourselves. No one makes us think a certain way, nor can anyone cause us to do things we don't want to do. Every thought and every action is created by you and you alone. We can be influenced by others and ask for advice, however, the ultimate decision you choose to make was based on your actions alone.
Do you know the price you pay for thinking and acting on negative behavior? If you think about it long enough the price you pay is pretty hefty. Negative thoughts and actions create more of what you are sending out of your body and mind. One negative thought or action will lead to another. A negative thought will lead to a negative action. The more negativity you send the more you receive. You may be wishing and praying for things to get better in your life, but if all you are thinking about is everything that is going wrong and how you can't get a head in life, then that is all you are getting in return is more bad things and more of what you don't want. Instead of thinking about the things that are not going the way you would like for them to, demand things to be better. Expect things to turn around in your favor. Expect the impossible to be possible. Demand that your life is just the way you want it to be.
When you let go of the negative and fill your body and soul full of positive thinking and actions, then that is what you will get! More great things, more positive things, more of what you really want from your life!
For every negative thought that comes to your mind replace it with 5 positive things! Yes, you will have negative monkey chatter that crosses your mind from time to time. However, you can reverse the thought right away and start thinking about how you are going to change the wrong in your life and make it right. Start thinking about how you are going to feel when you are debt free, healthy, successful, prosperous, etc. Let that feeling stay with you all day long. And when Mr. Negative wants to creep into your mind, reverse it immediately and get to thinking good thoughts, good feelings and before long it will become automatic for you on how to eliminate the negative and move on with the positive!
Staying negative will never ever let you have what you really want in life. Negative thoughts will always create more negative thoughts. Negative thinking will keep you depressed and unable to feel good about what you can create for yourself in the future! A negative thinker can not enjoy all the positive things that literally surrounds them because they can not let their eyes see the beauty around them. All they see is the misfortune in their lives!
Lucky for you, if you are a negative thinker, you can change in an instant...........

No matter what is going on in your life, you have the up most ability to change what you don't like! Being positive and having positive energy will give you the ability to have those things that you so desire!
Staying positive takes no energy what so ever! Just a simple change in how you think and what you do! Actions and thoughts are powerful so be careful what you think and what you do! You are getting just what you ask for by the thoughts you carry around all day long.

You put the curse on yourself, now isn't it time to break free of that curse and move on to the more fabulous things that life has to offer you?

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Soar Like an Eagle!

Have you ever noticed how a chicken acts? They are afraid of everything. When they get frightened they flap their wings as fast as they can, yet unable to fly. They stay cooped up in the same place waiting for food and never are able to roam free. They do the same things day in and day out with no adventure in their lives what so ever.
Some people tend to act the same way. They live day after day never expecting anything great to happen. They never try to get out of their comfort zone, to try something new. They always think the worst and never think of an opportunity as their way of spreading their wings and flying to new places. They think everyone is out to get them. They think that as long as they have what they need to live off of, that is all they will ever need or have. They never give themselves enough credit to learn anything new. They settle for just a mediocre lifestyle.
I would venture to guess, that most who live like this, are living a very boring life. No room to grow and spread their wings. No excitement to make life worth living. Their days are filled with the same routine, day in and day out! Never expecting anything great to come of them!

An Eagle however, takes the lead at everything he does! Never afraid to reach new heights. Never surrounds himself with just mediocre creatures. He will soar way past the clouds where airplanes fly only because he knows he can! An Eagle doesn't waste his time pecking at ground level associating himself with like creatures. You will find him nestled high where no other bird will try and go. He is the mighty of the mighty! He will spread his wings to get where he is going and let the wind easily guide him to his destination! No journey is to long or to rough for an Eagle. An Eagle never looks back, but only focused on where he is going! An Eagle is bold, courageous, and adventurous! An Eagle is looked upon as amazing and breathtaking!
Your life is meant to be just as breathtaking and adventurous! You have the ability to spread your wings and reach new heights! Never associate yourself with others that live a mediocre life, instead soar with those that want to reach the highest point! Never settle for just the ordinary, rather expect the extraordinary in your life!
You have the ability to soar like an Eagle. The ability to spread your wings and reach the highest point! You have the ability to stay focused on your journey, never looking back. Set your eyes on all the things that will make you rise higher!
When you learn to spread your wings and let life carry you, you then will SOAR LIKE AN EAGLE!

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Dream to Believe!!

How many times have you sat around and dreamed about a beautiful vacation, a brand new car right off the lot, a new home, or maybe more time at home! What ever it may be have you ever stopped to wonder why it's just a DREAM? Allow me to let you in on a little secret!! YOUR JUST DREAMING!!! And you are not allowing yourself to BELIEVE!!
Lets go back to when you were a little kid. Remember when you were learning to ride a bike? You were so excited when your hands first met the handle bars. You might of even got a little nervous, but you were going to learn how to ride without those training wheels no matter what! You didn't sit around watching all the other kids ride their bikes dreaming you could do the same thing. Once you knew you wanted to do that, you got off that couch and didn't stop till you learned how! You see, it wasn't a dream for you, you learned how to ride because you BELIEVED IN YOU!!
So, what happened to your drive? Your ambition to want more? Here's another secret, YOU STILL GOT IT! Just look and you will find it! The difference between DREAMING & BELIEVING is how determined you are to get what you want in life! If you want to go through life just wishing you had a better life, a better car, a better home etc than you might as well get the pillow out and take a nap! However, if you are determined to have those things no matter what it takes then KEEP BELIEVING & what you BELIEVE will be, WILL BE!!!


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Are You Living Life Extraordinary or Ordinary

In order to answer that question you must first ask yourself if you go through life day after day doing the same things never expecting anything exciting to happen to you or do you step outside the box and go out on a limb and do the unthinkable that everyone else said you can't do?Being ordinary is boring and unadventurous. Ordinary people never give themselves enough credit to step outside their boundaries to try something unfamiliar to them. Ordinary people tend to start a million projects yet never successfully finish one. Ordinary people don't like to try new things for the fear of rejection or perhaps they would rather stay where they are comfortable instead of making a change that would better their life. Ordinary people may try something new and fail quickly because they choose to listen to the monkey chatter in their own heads or from others. Ordinary people never expect great things to happen to them and as a result of expecting just the norm that is what they exactly get....the same old same old!Being extraordinary requires stepping outside that oh so familiar box your living in and trying new things with the anticipation of being extremely successful at it. Never listening to the monkey chatter around you. Being extraordinary requires the expectation of having great results with the things you start, knowing you will finish and succeed no matter how long it takes. Being an extraordinary person requires being different, being a believer of the unknown, stepping out of your box, being strong enough to jump through hoops to get you where you are destined to go. If you want an extraordinary life, you have to quit being ordinary and start expecting more out of your life.YOUR LIFE SHOULD BE EXTRAORDINARY!!!Or do you like the Ordinary you that you are?Life is about choices, always choose EXTRAORDINARY things to happen in your life.When you choose to be extraordinary your life tends to become more desirable, meaningful, bright, and forever adventurous!Want an extraordinary life with extraordinary adventures?????www.BetterGetToLiving.com

"Create Your Own Destiny"

For some people they do not understand the concept of "creating their own destiny." Most people in this world would like to blame everything that goes wrong in their little world on everyone else. The truth is, we are creating everything that happens to us. And when I say everything, I mean everything.

You are creating your future by every little to big decision you make on a daily basis. One decision leads to another and then another. When you make bad decisions, you will tend to continue to make more bad ones. It goes to follow that when you make good decisions, you will continue to make more good ones.

So the question is, are you creating your ultimate desires? Or are you living day after day with a mediocre life? Being mediocre, or not living to your highest potential is not what was planned for you. You were created to live a life of abundance! Yes, it's true. You were put on this earth to achieve and excel in all that you do. If you aren't excelling in your life, it's because you have created a life that is just mediocre.

How do you change your mediocre life? It's very simple actually. The only thing you must do is just change a few things about yourself. And I do mean change "you." Trying to change other people will not get you to your destiny. It must start with you.

You must always know where you want to go in life. You must always stay positive, being in a negative state of mind all the time will get you no where. Know that in your mind, you will reach you destiny no matter what it takes. Always stay focused on your goals to get you to your destination. Always be thankful for the things you have now, live with gratitude. Tell yourself that you are worthy of all that you desire. Always, always believe in yourself.

When you decide to start creating the life that you desire, instead of creating mediocrity, then you will start seeing better and more wonderful things happen to you. You must decide to start living instead of just breathing each and every day!

Your desires are in your hands.....now, how will you get to your destination??
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"For the Love of Freedom"

We live in the LAND of "Freedom and Opportunities." Yet it amazes me how many people don't take advantage of their possibilities. So many people are wondering around this country not knowing what they are doing or where they are heading in life. And the possibilities for them are endless. We all have this amazing ability to change whatever it is we don't like about our lives. Whether it's the person we are with. The career we currently have. The place we live. The people we hang out with. And the list goes on.

For many people they get into the "being comfortable" stage in their lives and they "think" there is nothing else out there for them. Although, they have the power to "BE, DO, & HAVE" whatever they choose. Most of these people let "fear" stop them from a world of possibilities. So they stay on that couch just wishing something would change for them instead of getting up and actually doing something about it.

If you are the one sitting on the couch blaming everyone but yourself for the losses and misfortunes in your life than you will probably never get anywhere in life than where you are right now. And what a precious thing to waste, by not giving yourself enough credit to change the way your life is going. You have the absolute right to be, do, and have whatever you desire. Only one thing stopping you from having all that is yourself. Remember, we live in the land of opportunity. That means, if you desire something, then go claim it and live your life to the fullest. What is stopping you? If you make a list of things to why you can't or won't take charge of your life, then most likely you will continue to live in the land of freedom and opportunity, yet never take advantage of the glories in having it.

How many times are you going to say to yourself, "I wish, if only, maybe next year, I can't, economy is to bad, etc,etc,etc?" Those are excuses to not living life the way you want and deserve!

So, for the LOVE of your FREEDOM and OPPORTUNITIES, make a change in your life. No one is stopping you from having it all! Unless you are in your own way!